ABOUT

Made for the time you make.

Long Distance Date is an independent, free companion for two people spending time together on a video or voice call. It helps you move from “what should we do?” to a small, practical plan.

You bring the call. We bring the ideas.

Choose a mood, a duration and whether you want to include snacks. The planner combines three activities: an opening, a main activity, and a gentle ending. Each activity includes instructions, materials and conversation prompts. A timer gives you a guide to the pace, without moving you on automatically.

The site does not host video calls, record conversations, request your camera or microphone, or synchronize two devices. Use your usual call app. A shared plan link opens the same activities for the other person, with separate progress and timers.

Small by design

Our collection is written for ordinary homes, ordinary energy levels, and materials you may already have. There are no account requirements, subscriptions or paid activity packs. No-spend activities require no purchase; snacks are optional when you choose to include them.

The guides and prompts are original editorial content created for this site. They offer activity ideas, not relationship counseling or promises about outcomes. You can skip any prompt or change the plan whenever you like.

Say hello

For feedback, accessibility requests or a problem with the planner, email lautaro@deadcow.xyz. Please avoid sending private conversation details. A description of your device, browser and the issue is usually enough to help us investigate.

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